Although, we have grown up and feel responsible and sensible about what we do in life, we are never sure about our future life decisions. Perhaps, we are prohibited to decide about our own lives independently, because we are never independents.
Even if we are told that we have our freedom of going to school and university, there are more important things in life which are forbidden from us.
Unconsciously, it turns up that we are obliged to think about what others will think about our decisions. We always have to think of the consequences of the thoughts that we have taken, as have always believed that they have the right to decide for us. We are always uncertain and doubtful regarding our own decisions. We have this big special place in our life where we think that it always belongs to a man. This special place somehow can never be controlled by us. The remote control is on the man’s hand, which he can play with it the way that suites him and we happily agree with it like clowns. It is never the thought that we could fill that special place with something more beneficial for our lives than making it for them. Or think of clearing that space and make it perfectly beneficial for our brains to grow and make it bigger than what it is, rather than, making others brain-wash us.
We always believed that we can not make a step before we ask a man about it, because they are always better thinkers, particularly the older men.
We always respected others especially the older, but there is never a treat or reward for doing so. They always enjoy practicing all sorts of punishments, assaults, violence, physical abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse on us.
They have always expected us to do things for them under pressure and threats. It is all because they are strongly selfish and arrogant about whom they are. More importantly, that is because we allowed them to be stronger than us by being naive and peaceful creatures, and allowing them to act with us stubbornly.
They always think that women can never think wisely as they do. That is because, decisions women take is going to make their reputation lower in front of the society and that is a big shame in front of the whole world.
They believe that they are the only ones who can make things right without making any black spots in their life when they face God. They never care how they treat the people living all their life around them, as long as they think it is the right way for them selves.
How can that be acceptable in front of God if they are not fair with their own wives, sisters and kids? It is really hard to trust a person if he says something as an order or an advice if it doesn’t apply to him self first. That is not acceptable at all to me. It is really hard for me to trust that person or believe in him. Thinking that they own us is a humiliation and degrading to who I am. We have always been civilised at home, but what did we get out of that?
We are treated like animals or sheep that they can lead however they want. Talking for our own rights makes them treat us like silent walls with no ears listening to us, and with total ignorance, which makes us feel nothing on earth. Makes us feel so low and deserve nothing to live for.
They take us the way they want, sort us out they way it pleases them. Make us dressed up in a way that we can never be looked at, making us look so miserable and sad. Seeing us depressed is their own pleasure because they think we are not born to be happy.
Power of religion and power of ownership has always been on top of everything. They made the rules and we are obliged to follow with no choice. It has always been on man’s hand and there is always a force which pushes us to obey commands with no questions. Never our choice because we never knew that there is something named as a choice in life. We have always been ruled by a force which we have been listened to since we were kids, and follow what our mothers did as it is always considered to be the right and the only was we can live.
Seeing our mothers follow that way of life made us so convinced and believe about it being right.
We never seen suffer in their faces as they always smiled and hidden their sadness in their heart. We never seen the bitterness of pain that they had gone through with that smile which raised us up in the way that men wanted us to be.
They never had the power on their hands to change our destiny. It has always been that man’s and the society’s choice. They had no choice or power to change and make our life better.
Men always feel so confident by having that power of control on their side and do what they think is good for them selves. They always do what is related to their happiness no matter how the other side feels about it. They act so arrogantly with their sisters, wives and mothers and daughters without any sense of humanity.
We are treated like animals or sheep that they can lead however they want. Take us the way they want, sort us out they way it pleases them. Make us dressed up in a way that we can never be looked at, make us look so miserable and sad. Seeing us depressed is their own pleasure because they think we are not born to be happy. And marry the person that they think he is right for us.
Marriage is under circumstances; it has to be agreed by the whole community and society. And last, it depends of the generosity of men; she is either told that she has to marry the guy or never bothered asking her opinion about it at all, as they consider themselves responsible about her entire life and her destiny. In order to make it right and clear in front of God and the society, they are the only ones who have the right to decided about our marriage life. How can that be acceptable or applicable in today’s generation?
It might be true that God have made us out of clay, but that doesn’t mean that they can make a woman like the way a baker bakes a cake.
If life is about taking someone’s rights on earth, then there is no point of brining a baby in this life. It causes more harm and more pain to them. It is exactly like burying them alive by making them miserable.
Life is more than taking human’s right. It is about mentality growth and humanisation…..
Even if we are told that we have our freedom of going to school and university, there are more important things in life which are forbidden from us.
Unconsciously, it turns up that we are obliged to think about what others will think about our decisions. We always have to think of the consequences of the thoughts that we have taken, as have always believed that they have the right to decide for us. We are always uncertain and doubtful regarding our own decisions. We have this big special place in our life where we think that it always belongs to a man. This special place somehow can never be controlled by us. The remote control is on the man’s hand, which he can play with it the way that suites him and we happily agree with it like clowns. It is never the thought that we could fill that special place with something more beneficial for our lives than making it for them. Or think of clearing that space and make it perfectly beneficial for our brains to grow and make it bigger than what it is, rather than, making others brain-wash us.
We always believed that we can not make a step before we ask a man about it, because they are always better thinkers, particularly the older men.
We always respected others especially the older, but there is never a treat or reward for doing so. They always enjoy practicing all sorts of punishments, assaults, violence, physical abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse on us.
They have always expected us to do things for them under pressure and threats. It is all because they are strongly selfish and arrogant about whom they are. More importantly, that is because we allowed them to be stronger than us by being naive and peaceful creatures, and allowing them to act with us stubbornly.
They always think that women can never think wisely as they do. That is because, decisions women take is going to make their reputation lower in front of the society and that is a big shame in front of the whole world.
They believe that they are the only ones who can make things right without making any black spots in their life when they face God. They never care how they treat the people living all their life around them, as long as they think it is the right way for them selves.
How can that be acceptable in front of God if they are not fair with their own wives, sisters and kids? It is really hard to trust a person if he says something as an order or an advice if it doesn’t apply to him self first. That is not acceptable at all to me. It is really hard for me to trust that person or believe in him. Thinking that they own us is a humiliation and degrading to who I am. We have always been civilised at home, but what did we get out of that?
We are treated like animals or sheep that they can lead however they want. Talking for our own rights makes them treat us like silent walls with no ears listening to us, and with total ignorance, which makes us feel nothing on earth. Makes us feel so low and deserve nothing to live for.
They take us the way they want, sort us out they way it pleases them. Make us dressed up in a way that we can never be looked at, making us look so miserable and sad. Seeing us depressed is their own pleasure because they think we are not born to be happy.
Power of religion and power of ownership has always been on top of everything. They made the rules and we are obliged to follow with no choice. It has always been on man’s hand and there is always a force which pushes us to obey commands with no questions. Never our choice because we never knew that there is something named as a choice in life. We have always been ruled by a force which we have been listened to since we were kids, and follow what our mothers did as it is always considered to be the right and the only was we can live.
Seeing our mothers follow that way of life made us so convinced and believe about it being right.
We never seen suffer in their faces as they always smiled and hidden their sadness in their heart. We never seen the bitterness of pain that they had gone through with that smile which raised us up in the way that men wanted us to be.
They never had the power on their hands to change our destiny. It has always been that man’s and the society’s choice. They had no choice or power to change and make our life better.
Men always feel so confident by having that power of control on their side and do what they think is good for them selves. They always do what is related to their happiness no matter how the other side feels about it. They act so arrogantly with their sisters, wives and mothers and daughters without any sense of humanity.
We are treated like animals or sheep that they can lead however they want. Take us the way they want, sort us out they way it pleases them. Make us dressed up in a way that we can never be looked at, make us look so miserable and sad. Seeing us depressed is their own pleasure because they think we are not born to be happy. And marry the person that they think he is right for us.
Marriage is under circumstances; it has to be agreed by the whole community and society. And last, it depends of the generosity of men; she is either told that she has to marry the guy or never bothered asking her opinion about it at all, as they consider themselves responsible about her entire life and her destiny. In order to make it right and clear in front of God and the society, they are the only ones who have the right to decided about our marriage life. How can that be acceptable or applicable in today’s generation?
It might be true that God have made us out of clay, but that doesn’t mean that they can make a woman like the way a baker bakes a cake.
If life is about taking someone’s rights on earth, then there is no point of brining a baby in this life. It causes more harm and more pain to them. It is exactly like burying them alive by making them miserable.
Life is more than taking human’s right. It is about mentality growth and humanisation…..
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